hey, I'm 14 and have this same problem alot of the time I know this was poestd a while ago, but I generally think you should tell her, but reassure her that you don't want it to affect your friendship with her I end up doing that most of the time, and it lifts so many smothering feelings and your friend should be okay with it. if your sure she's straight, encourage her to tell you if she's uncomfortable with anything email me and tell me how you go. hope I helped x

… that’s being plnenad. It was a plnenad incident – it’s not THE plnenad incident? See? You follow me there? A trial balloon. Just like the Occupy stuff. Just like the end of summer racist stuff. The waters are being tested. I know it. Absolutely know it. I worked with some of these people. I know how they operate – I know what they are doing here. They are clumsy though – easy to spot. But if they get enough media…enough favorable media coverage – they will allowed to be sloppy as long as it fits with the pre-determined outcome. The hoped for outcome. For them anyway.